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This conversation amused me NO END today at work. It was between myself and my good friend B. She has recently started making some wonderful lifestyle changes with her diet that are quite similar to my own, and even more low-sugar than I’ve been able to get so far. She’s cutting out processed foods and researching why fat is so good for us, and sugar so bad.  Go B!

Now, B is a healthy gal. She works out several times a week, and is always joining cardio classes at the Y. If she were to publish an online dating profile, it would say “height/weight proportionate” in the body shape category. I think that’s part of what made this conversation so delicious.

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B: I’m disappointed.

Me: Why’s that?

B:  I’ve only lost 3 lbs.

Me:  How long has it been now?  Two or three weeks?

B:  Two, plus a bit more sort of “prep” time.

Me:  So you must be hungry alot?

B:  No!  I’m actually less hungry than usual!

Me:  So you must be feeling sort of deprived, then?  Not being able to eat sugar and bread and stuff?

B:  Not at all.

Me:  So you’re saying you’re feeling more nourished than you’ve ever felt, and not feeling deprived, and not having to count calories or fat while taking in more calories and fat than you ever have, and you’re still losing weight at a healthy and sustainable 1.5 lbs/week?

B: Well, aren’t you walking on the sunny side of the street today.

Me:  It’s warmer on this side.  What were you expecting?

B:  Well, to lose kind of a lot at the beginning, like on WW!

Me:  Oh, is that the diet you were telling me about where you were starving all the time, and actually asked at a meeting, will I ever NOT be hungry?

B:  Ok, ok, I get it.  Sheesh.

Me:  Heh.

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I’m so proud of you, B.

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These are the last five of the ten questions I posted as my biggest hitters when people ask me about food.

6.  How did you find this information about food, like what to eat and what not to eat?

We have streaming-only Netflix for $8/month, and Hulu Plus through a Roku for $8/month.  There are lots of great documentaries on food, bees, and just about anything else you could want to see a documentary about.  Here is a list of the food documentaries we have watched in the last couple of months:

  • Food, Inc.
  • Food Matters
  • Forks Over Knives
  • The Future of Food
  • Fat, Sick, and Nearly Dead
  • Fresh
  • King Corn
  • Ingredients
  • Get Vegucated!

I also read.  In the last few months I’ve read the following food-related non-fiction books:

  • Fair Food (Hesterman)
  • Fed Up!  (Wu)
  • The World According to Monsanto (Robin)
  • Turn Here Sweet Corn:  Organic Farming Works (Diffley)
  • The Omnivore’s Dilemma  (Pollan)
  • Food for Life  (Barnard)

I regularly read blogs that have great recipes with real food and/or offer information while referencing their sources.  Here are a few of my favorites:

Every one of these sources of information leads you to another source.  It’s a pretty “organic” process.  Ha ha.

7.  Really?  You only drink water?

Yes.  I have lots of opinions about this.  I’m sort of a pain in the ass that way.

8.  How do you get your kids to eat all those veggies?

This one’s pretty simple.  Richard or I make one dinner, and that’s what’s for dinner.  I tell them if they don’t like it, there are apples and carrots in the fridge.  Go nuts.  Sometimes they choose the apples and carrots, but not very often.  They almost always eat some of everything, and if they really don’t like it they might go for a carrot after dinner.  We only allow dessert (ice cream) on Tuesday and Friday nights, so we save ourselves the trouble of repeating the mantra ”Eat your veggies if you want dessert!”  No bargaining.  I don’t care how much they do or don’t eat on Tuesday and Friday nights.  They get their dessert regardless.  It takes a lot of stress out of the equation.  Kids aren’t going to starve themselves.  If they know there aren’t going to be chicken nuggets or macaroni and cheese featured on the regular menu, they’re not going to hold out and go hungry waiting for those things.

Plus, our kids ROCK.

9.  Monsanto?

BAD.  Very bad.  Very scary.  I get a little tongue-tied on this one because it’s so big.  I’m not going to write about it because others have done it better.  I’m pretty sure Monsanto information is in all of the documentaries and books I listed above.  Just google “Monsanto GMO” and you’ll be reading for hours.  ‘Nuff said.

10.  How do you find time for all this stuff?

Usually between 8:30 pm and 11:00 pm, after the kids are in bed.  I also read a book while eating my lunch at work, or sometimes read blogs on my phone.  Richard and I are fortunate enough to be able to have a “date night” every Friday night, and we’ll usually do some grocery shopping and/or check out a new food source.  When the farmers markets start up we’ll be taking the kids to them every weekend and there’s always lots of information there.

So that’s pretty much it.  What do you think?

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In this post I’ll tackle the first five of the ten questions I posted as my biggest hitters when people ask me about food.

1.  You’ve lost a lot of weight.  How did you do it?

Richard and I made the decision to cut processed foods and chemical additives out of our lifestyle, and eat only whole, organic foods.  This means organic produce, legumes and grains, as well as humanely raised and pastured meats and eggs,  We drink plain water, and occasionally Richard has an herbal tea.  We eat dairy, but much less than we used to.  We try to keep dairy consumption to under 15% of our diet.  We do have “junk food” occasionally, such as whole wheat bread and whole wheat cookies, but only if we make them.  At this point, I’m usually getting an unbelieving, slightly horrified stare.

2.  How did you get started on this kick?

After about six months of seeing the documentary Fat, Sick and Nearly Dead available on Netflix, I finally watched it.  It was an eye-opener.  It is about a guy from Australia who was feeling sick, and fat, and unhealthy, and decided to go on a juice fast for 60 days.  It chronicles his journey through the 60 days from fat and sick to healthy and bright-eyed.  The message made sense, deep inside me.  It’s such a simple concept:  What you eat MATTERS.  I urged Richard to watch it.  After he watched it, we decided to juice fast for a week.  We made it four days, and in that time we had reevaluated our entire food lifestyle.  We finally got clarity, and joined forces to steer our family toward decades of good health and mental vibrancy, and away from decades of steady, incremental decline in health.

3.  Did you start doing this to lose weight?

We initially started our juice fast to kick-start our weight loss, but by the end of four days we had gained a vision of a food lifestyle that didn’t include counting calories or fat grams.  It was so much simpler than that.  Eat lots of plants.  Eat local, humanely raised meat, where you know the conditions the animals live in.  Eat dairy in the same manner.  We are finding as we embrace plants more, we eat less meat, and less dairy, naturally.

4.  Organic’s so expensive.  Do you really think it’s worth it?

I think this question usually assumes an apples-to-apples comparison.  It’s not quite that simple, at least it wasn’t for us.

Before we started on this new lifestyle I went out for lunch at work everyday; subs, chinese, pizza, local restaurants, etc.  When we grocery shopped we’d always buy a couple of frozen pizzas for my mom to feed the kids when Richard and I went on our Friday date nights.  Abby likes crackers so into the grocery cart they’d go, as well as tortilla chips, goldfish crackers, fruit snacks, and always some sort of candy.  We’d also get some fresh produce (half of which usually went bad before we used it), 3 gallons of milk for the week, pre-shredded cheese (more expensive than a block of cheese), canned vegetables, and processed breakfast cereals.  Tortillas made it easy to have a build-your-own-taco night.  Richard and my Friday night date nights always included a dinner out.

So, now we compare that to our usual activities and purchases.  I bring a lunch everyday at work, and it’s usually a green salad or leftovers from the dinner the night before.  Today it was two organic small red potatoes to heat in the microwave at work, with a little pastured butter, organic sour cream, and finished with pink sea salt and pepper.  I brought an organic orange, an organic apple, a small container of raw walnuts, and my two juice bottles for the day.  So that’s the sort of thing I do for lunches now.  It doesn’t cost me anything but leftovers or produce on hand.

When we go out on date nights, we eat at home first.  We have our family meal of good whole foods, and leave afterwards to go do something fun like visit a book store, or see a movie, or scout out new organic grocery sources in the area that maybe we’ve heard about but never visited.  We spend a lot less money and have just as great a connecting evening together as we ever did before, and our kids aren’t eating the frozen pizzas.

Crackers, bread, goldfish crackers, fruit snacks, tortillas, pre-shredded cheese etc. are all processed foods and don’t get into our cart anymore.

All of these changes together have made ample room (and room to spare) in our budget for organic produce, and to obtain meat and dairy from local and sustainability-minded land stewards.  This year we joined our first CSA (Community Supported Agriculture) farm and are looking forward to forging more relationships in the concious-eating community.

As for the organic products themselves, and what benefits they offer:  I think it’s worth it if for no other reason than to detox your body in the intial stages of this change.  I felt like I had been deluging my body with chemicals, unhealthily-raised meat, processed foods, and so many other terrible foods, that I needed to detox all the pesticides and junk that had built up over the decades.  We still juice veggies and fruit for two of our meals, which we consider a medicine.  The nutrition we get from the juices helps our cells work optimally to process the food we consume.  I also think that organic is especially important for kids, because the ratio of what they eat compared to their body size is much different than that of an adult.  They also can’t process toxins as efficiently as an adult because they’re physically smaller and less developed.  I realize that being certified USDA Organic does not erase the problems created by that very certification, but even factory farms that are certified organic are more sustainable than non-organic.

5.  So, what IS ok to eat?

I love this question, because then I get to talk about all the wonderful things we are eating now.  Changing to this food lifestyle is a bounty; it in no way feels like any deprivation such as you might experience on a typical restriction diet.  I feel like we have the best food we’ve ever eaten, every single day.  These days, going out to eat is the almost unavoidable result of obligation (usually work or family related), resulting in a struggle to find something to eat, and it’s frustrating and irritating to be spending more money on less nutritional quality.  Dissatisfying in every way, except the time spent with good company.  Given the choice between big-farm organic or small-farm local non-certified organic, but who take their role as stewards of land, animal integrity, and sustainable agriculture seriously, I’d take the non-organic local product any day of the week.

I know this post is a little rambly, but I’m still figuring out what makes sense for me and my family, and putting it into publishable-quality form isn’t my goal.  It’s to try to convey our sense of purpose, and our struggles, in a way that might resonate with you.

Let me know what you think; leave me a comment.  If you’re on this food train, why and how?  If you’re not, what do you think about that?  Where are you on the spectrum of interest in this lifestyle?  Or are you just overwhelmed and enjoy reading about it but know you’d never find the iron will it would take to change all of these things at once?  Just curious.  Let’s have a dialogue.

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Since we started this new food lifestyle in January I’ve gotten this question a LOT.  Here is a list of the other questions I’ve gotten, a LOT:

  1. You’ve lost a lot of weight.  How did you do it?
  2. How did you get started on this kick?
  3. Did you start doing this to lose weight?
  4. Organic’s so expensive.  Do you really think it’s worth it?
  5. So, what IS ok to eat?
  6. How did you find this information about food, like what to eat and what not to eat?
  7. Really?  You only drink water?
  8. How do you get your kids to eat all those veggies?
  9. Monsanto?
  10. How do you find time for all this stuff?

I want to start answering these questions.  Tomorrow’s post will tackle 1-5.

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I used to hate drinking water.  I had even read some snippet somewhere that drinking water with a meal made it harder to digest food.  Well then I had to drink something with meals!  I’d also heard several vague things about diet soda being worse for you because it tricked your body into making insulin to fight sugar that wasn’t there.  And aspartame was in it, and if you just google “aspartame side effects” you’ll have plenty to read until you’re dead.  So what did that leave?  Well, real soda.  The HFCS in it also had some sort of negative effect on your body’s processing of the sugar, but it had to be better than the diet stuff, right?  And if I could find the soda made with real sugar, well, that was just about a health food!  For the record, fruit juices were junk that I scoffed at because it was just pure sugar.  Milk was great at home with meals, but felt weird in public, a non-octogenarian grown-up getting a milk.  Pretty rare if I ordered that.

Plus, water tasted weird.  It didn’t leave my tongue feeling somehow “cleaner” from the carbonation.  Water just kind of slicked over everything in my mouth and then I could still taste the food I was eating.  Soda, on the other hand, bubbled along over the tongue and left it tasting sweet and ready for the next bite.  Cleansing one’s palate with Coke, if you will.

So how did I go from being that person up there, in those two paragraphs, to a person who drinks strictly water?  Well, because there’s nothing else real to drink.  And water tastes better to me now.  It complements the foods I eat because I am eating real foods, whole foods, unprocessed foods.  There are no chemicals or strange slight residues left in my mouth by what I’m eating, that I feel I need a “cleanser” between bites.

So how about tea? I hear someone asking.  Coffee, surely there’s nothing wrong with coffee, only about a billion people drink it every day!  And everyone needs a beer or a glass of wine or something to relax at the end of the week, right?

Tea tastes like tea and gives me an immediate headache.  Coffee puts me up on the ceiling and keeps me there, talking non-stop, for a couple of hours, then I slam to the ground and have a headache.  Alcohol has always immediately given me a dull headache, then switches on my in-skin sprinkler system full blast.  I sweat like a pig would sweat if they sweated.  My skin feels hot to the touch and my cheeks look like I might be just barely surviving a small heart attack, right here, right now.  Is your left arm hurting yet, Muriel?  Can you tell me where we are right now, what day it is?  This is not the way to spend a fun Friday night.

All that said, my theory in a nutshell is this:  I think non-water beverages are popular because people are uncomfortable with tasting their food.  They are uncomfortable with tasting their food because their body knows it’s unhealthy for them and drinking a distraction helps ease that discomfort in the mammal brain.  Water doesn’t disguise bad flavors or too much salt or greasy mouth-feel.  It simply draws attention to flavors, textures, etc.  So if you’re eating stuff that has unpleasant aspects to it, water isn’t going to be your drink of choice.

Any thoughts on this?  Do you drink straight, unflavored water?  Do you drink water with meals?  If not, why not?

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Today I went out for lunch with some coworkers.  We went to a small, comfortable, local family restaurant.  In my old food lifestyle, I very much enjoyed getting their tuna salad wrap, or their huge grilled chicken cobb salad for lunch.  Today I was at a loss what to get.  The tuna salad has regular mayo in it, which I’m assuming consists of the ingredients listed below (Hellman’s and Best Foods brand mayonnaise ingredients):

Soybean oil, whole eggs, vinegar, water, egg yolks, salt, sugar, lemon juice, natural flavors, calcium disodium EDTA (used to protect quality).

I have a problem with everything that’s bolded.  The soybeans are GMO; genetically modified foods have been proven to cause problems with infertility and organ damage, as well as diabetes and obesity.  The whole eggs and egg yolks are from GMO-corn-fed factory farm chickens.  The salt is iodized table salt that has been processed to remove all of its nutrients, and actually has to pull minerals from your body’s stores to process it.  The sugar is refined.  The lemon juice is reconstituted from the lowest quality non-produce-section, non-organic lemon juice.  Natural flavors is code for MSG.  Calcium disodium EDTA I had to look up, because that’s certainly not in my cupboard.

“Calcium disodium ethylene diamine tetraacetate is the calcium salt of disodium ethylene diamine tetraacetate more commonly known as EDTA, which is a polyamino carboxylic acid that is produced synthetically from ethylenediamine, formaldehyde and sodium cyanide. It produces a colourless, water-soluble solid that is used in many products as a chelating agent, emulsifying salt, anti-oxidant, preservative, stabiliser, and as a sequestrant.

(source: http://www.foodditive.com/additive/calcium-disodium-ethylene-diamine-tetraacetate-edta)

Holy SHIT.  Why would I want to put THAT into my body??  That’s just the mayonnaise.  JUST THE MAYONNAISE.  Then we could talk about the canned tuna in water (also full of MSG), and the tortilla with its refined white flour and preservatives.

I turned down the cobb salad because even though I could order it without grilled chicken (pumped full of antibiotics, fed a diet of government-subsidized GMO corn at factory farms and kept in tiny cages unable to stand up fully for their entire lives, then processed at a centralized meat processing center manned by exploited immigrants in unsafe conditions), eggs (from similar chickens), bacon (from factory farm pigs fed a diet of government-subsidized GMO corn, etc. then cured using nitrites and several kinds of excitotoxins aka MSG), or dressing (a chemical soup of preservatives, pesticide-laden herbs, highly processed government-subsidized GMO corn syrup and thickeners, and several kinds of excitotoxins aka MSG).  I’d be left with non-organic greens grown in nutrient-deficient soil 2,000 miles away and laden with pesticide residues and possible e-coli contamination from the manure put on the lettuce fields, which comes from feedlot cattle (meant to eat grass because they’re ruminants) fattened and sick with a gut full of e-coli from eating government-subsidized GMO corn) and a few slices of non-organic avocado, and a weak little non-organic orangish tomato from 1,000 miles away.

These were my choices.  Seriously.  Our food system is so very broken.  Food is not just AVAILABLE;  it is aggressively and deliberately MARKETED based on whatever the food producer pays the marketer to emphasize; fat content, calorie content, flavor, appearance, status, ideology, personal vanity, shelf price.  Food is not marketed on what truly matters about it: the nutrition your body can use from it.  The source and conditions it is created in.  What the true costs of the food are, not just the final shelf price.  Where it comes from, how and how far it’s transported, how it’s processed, the effects all of these elements have on the final product set in front of you.  The information the majority of people use to make food choices is a chaotic jumble of disconnected “facts” that have nothing to do with the actual nutrition of the food being consumed.  There’s a very good reason for that, which is if the curtain was drawn back on where our food originates, most people wouldn’t BUY that food.  They’d demand, with their voices and dollars, real food with real nutrition, as local and fresh as possible, without chemicals, without processing, without unsustainable animal-rearing practices void of basic life ethics and rife with horrific abuse worthy of a post-apocolyptic blockbuster movie.

I ended up ordering a portabella mushroom on a plain no-butter toasted kaiser roll with tomato, lettuce, and onion.  It came with kettle chips.  It was expensive, and I didn’t eat most of it.  But it did make me think, and it inspired me to write, and to add my voice to the rising tide of voices that are slowly but surely being heard.  Pulling back the veil that is drawn carefully over our food system is necessary.  It is a very large windmill, and we are all riding very small donkeys.  But maybe the agility is just what we need.  Giddyap!

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This is my typical lunch, eaten at my desk.  I used to go out daily for lunch – subs, Noodles, chinese, etc.  In January, when I first started bringing a healthy whole raw lunch, it was like I was breaking an addiction.  I felt really deprived when everyone else left for lunch. I felt outraged that I work 45 hours a week and I couldn’t even have a lunch.  I was grieving my daily indulgent, expensive, and deeply unhealthy and unsatisfying lunch lifestyle that I’d been creating for 15 years.

I think it’s important to know that these are feelings you may experience if you are upgrading your food choices in your life.  Richard and I used to go out to eat 4-5 times a week, 5 years ago, and multiple times a day.  We were making great money but we invested most of it into degrading our health slowly and expensively.

For the last few years, we went out to restaurants at least twice a week, sometimes with the kids.  We felt we’d really cut back.  Then in January we made our lifestyle change to healthy, organic, whole and raw foods, mostly plants.  Since January 11th, Richard and I have eaten out 3 times together.  All three times were unsatisfying and expensive (when I compare what we spent on substandard food to the abundance of fresh whole foods we could have purchased for that same money).

We are down to eating meat maybe twice a week, and we go days at a time before I even notice we’ve been meatless.  When meat is part of the meal, the portions are a fraction of what we used to eat.  With a family of 5, we can easily get two full meat meals and and 1-2 soup meals, and some leftovers, from one free-range organic whole chicken.  Most of these meals are a big green salad to start, and some steamed veggies, and a whole grain or starch vegetable (like a potato or squash) for sides.  Pasta is too refined and processed for us to include it more than maybe once or twice a month.  Grass-fed organic beef, used sparingly in dishes that make the most of it, is included maybe twice a month.

My intent for this post, typed painstakingly in via my cell phone’s touchscreen keyboard, was just to share what I was having for lunch today.  I guess this just goes to show how much more I have to say about the choices I and my family are making when it comes to food these days!

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